You do not Act or Look Like a Married Woman. Nigga Please.

I thought hell, here we go as I open this Pandora box that makes a lot of closed minded persons uncomfortable. What I am going to do, is close the box of regression by men who project their deficiencies on women. A society led by men has shaped most of us while I would thank the passage of time for an involuntary impulse with revolt aggrandizement against this system of repression. As patriarchy shades its scales in a gradual evolution to  equity and indulgence, I can safely say, what a time to be alive. This might be the 4th wave of feminism and general common sense. As you read this blog, bite on a lemon because like the first protofeminist, any ideology out of the norm is rebuked with vehemence. Bring out your worst, I am neither remorseful nor repentant.

I get this a lot, ‘you don’t act or look like a married woman.’ If I was awarded with a chicken for every time this graced my ear drums I would knock Mr Kentucky out of business. How is a married woman supposed to act though? I try to listen to the older generation of women but they have been indoctrinated by misogyny its almost impossible to have any form of conversation. There is a little box of bullshit designed by misogyny scruples that stifles all womenfolk. It imbues an inbred hate for women and assures that we suffocate in the mere presence of menfolk. The superiority of men ironically impelled by fragile masculinity which is threatened by the power of femininity. I am getting to it, this is important to highlight. Men have restrained women from becoming their full potential and have shackled them with psychological warfare tactics of oppression. Their biggest mental weapon is shaming women for their sexuality. Funny because women are sexual beings, look we walk around in plain sight with mounds of flesh protruding from our chests, curves and poignant posterior. Angelic soft facial features and fragile silk bodies, we are just damn sexual and that is our nature. We are made to feel ashamed of our bodies whatever the shape and size. In a world full of perverts, men try to blame  their unbridled inappropriate desires on women. Your dressing provoked me. Is the most stupid thing to say. No, you are a sick perv with no reigns of your own desires, in short you are a disgusting animal. Stop blaming the way women dress for your own sick perversions. Your mind is the gutter. Rapists castigate their victims for merely having the female anatomy. I was triggered by the short dress. Come the fuck on, that is all it takes? We can conclude that the I.Q of men is the size of a dinner plate because you sir, succumbed because of the entitlement that is bestowed to you by patriarchy. They love to project their short comings on us because they are cowards who can not be accountable for themselves. Its sickening that women can not even dress they way they want because men are stupid. We are slut shamed at every possible opportunity. What is even sadder is women  who proliferate this principle because they come from a long genealogy of oppression. Brain washed and irrevocably damaged.

I did not come here to bash men, my apologies but this discussion gets me really heated. The virtue of a woman is measured by her marital status, which is a standard brought to you by misogyny. Women can not be individuals without being attached to a certain status quo that involves men. Our lives are meant to orbit around these people. Like what the  fuck man. (by the way women are not allowed to speak like this, hahahaha I don’t give a fuck) I am infamous for this candid way of expressionism but what the hell I am Rogue. I love my body, my sexuality and I have the liberty to articulate the way I want it. My husband edifies me not own me. This broken record almost made me deaf, you will never get married with those body tattoos and piercings. I did not fit the marriage material criteria. The docile woman whose only mission is serve and please her partner despite of her own individuality. You are too wild to get married. I laughed as I walked down the aisle. There is nothing like marriage material that is a definitive male orthodox to bait females into conforming to patriarchal standards. I do not act or look like a married woman, of-course I don’t. I am an abstract human being that can not fit into your little box of oppression. I am not Mary Poppins and I will not be staying home, sewing buttons and saying massa every time my husband coughs. I am ME. My husbands gets me and it works. Freedom is key in our marriage. My happiness is not anchored on him. He has burdened me with trust and respect to conduct myself in a way that edifies us and vice versa. So I can post a sexy picture of me and its just me reveling in my sexuality and not trying to lure men. Please shut up. I go out with my girls without him, we have no curfew because we are two adults aware of the responsibilities that comes with marriage. We drink together and value each others privacy because marriage is not a cage but an institution that merges two adults to lead a life together.  We give each other space and he is TOTALLY comfortable with my out of norm dogma because he gets it, women are not meant to be suppressed but to blossom to their full potential in a non hostile environment. He is home and this is why I have such high regards for him and respect him so much. So, yeah, you will catch me dressed scandalously, because I love my body and I am not ashamed of my sexuality. I love myself so much that I have given myself this gift of expression and being the true me without pretending to be someone I am not, just to please the general populace.

Ladies be your true self and don’t let them lie to you, marriage does not earn you respect in society, at least not at the cost of your own happiness. Do not dim yourself to fit the marriage material principle, IT IS A SCAM. Marriage is not an achievement so you are still great and worthy of it all. Virtue is not given to you but its what you ooze as a woman and it is measured by you. If you make them uncomfortable don’t be apologetic, its either they adapt or die. Marriage is wonderful with the right person equally yoked to your beliefs. It works. So please, don’t come at me with your uncultured out of the bush rhubarb about what is the norm, get the fuck outta here.

 

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